In the name of the Most Generous and the Most Merciful.
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"Pabila tertutupnya mata si ibu maka tertutuplah satu pintu nikmat iaitu doa ibu."
There's a lot to say from the way that phrase sounded. Well, it depends.
I am known to appear happy and smiley at all times since I was small. From my own observation, the way people see me depends on the way I brought myself. As I enjoy joking around, acting silly, pulling pranks on my friends and have always been living in this happy bubble of mine, I actually spend very little time being sad or think about the problems that I must have had. Perhaps that is why it is very rare to see me not in the mood, except if I'm a bit too hungry or that I do not get enough sleep. Yep, I tend to appear a little grumpy from lack of sleep.
Basically, that's how I bring myself around people and how I'd like people to view me.
After mom's passing, I seldom take most of people's words to heart. And, it's not good at all. Hm I do not even get why people make such phrases at the first place, as well, because I thought it was really unnecessary. I mean, with all the sorrows and griefs - how a phrase like that helps? It was not uttered to me but I saw it online and thought it was really hurtful and insensitive.
So, I told a friend about it because it bugged my peace so much.
And she told me this,
"You see, in this world there are people who appreciates their parents and those who do not. I'm glad that you're not one of those who don't because I've seen you went all out and I've seen your worries. Even when you don't say it but I know since you've never been this unhappy. I don't want to see you hurt anymore. Love, this was a saying meant for those who do not appreciate their mothers. You did, so please don't take this internet thing to head, okay?
From now on, just remember to send prayers to your mom and do good deeds on her behalf. Perhaps that will help ease your hurt and heal you."
This is why it is so important to keep a positive crowd around you so that you won't get washed away by negative thoughts. Since that day, I never look at the phrase the same way I did.
Yes, it is undeniable that my mom won't be able to make prayers for me anymore.
But whatever she wished for me while she was still alive and breathing will continue to live on.
And now I am convinced that I have even stronger faith in Him. Every wishes go straight to Him and only Him, He's all ears at all times. And I can really feel that.
I needn't go to my mom and fret about things. Sometimes, I whisper things in my heart and He listened and turned my dreams into reality. Other times I cry to myself only knowing the next few days problems are magically solved. It's so miraculous. I know He looks after everyone and I'm not excluded. Most of the time, now, when I sense a trouble ahead, I can relax a bit knowing He'll help work things out. I just need to learn to trust His plan and He'll make way for me soon.
After I set my mind like this, great things started to happen.
Law of Attraction: Your mind is a magnet to things it has spent time thinking. If you think of blessings, then blessings will come your way.
And, try to look at the positive side of everything.
Your life itself is already a blessing,make full use of it by being everything good. Stop being sad for too long if things do not go your way, okay? There's always silver linings. Just flip your life to its next page, next chapter, next series.
My wishes for those who have lost their mothers and fathers: Trust in Him, you'll do just fine. Make sure you have a positive mind and supportive crowd. Plus, you've to be strong for those who wants to see you prosper. Don't let their effort in rooting for you goes to waste 😉 Bismillah, semoga Allah buka jalan.
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