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A guy bestfriend

Why ?
Bcs they say , a guy bestfriend stick up for you . Give their sweatshirt when you re cold . Not gonna steal your boy , unless he s gay well but why on earth would you befriend a gay and take him as bestfriend . And wont tell your secrets away .

1. They stick up for you .
I hv a number of guy friends which I can refer to as bestfriends . Yes , at times they do stick up for me . My guy bestfriend from primary came to my house for Eid every year since he first got his driver's license . He d bring our other friends from secondary so we can all hv fun together . Years ago during class , they would laugh everytime I cracked jokes . They would ask me , "What s wrong ?" when I kept quiet .

My guy friends from science class (all of them) came for Eid this year and they made my day - big time . Ibu told them about how I spoilt myself so much but they stick up for me by saying , "It s okay . She ll be okay . She chose a good uni ."

They even cleaned up the table after our meal . I was touched .

2. They give their sweatshirt when you re cold .
Haha this one gets me everytime . It s a funny story . One time when we went out late at night , on our way into the green , he gave away his sweatshirt . Only it was not bcs I was cold . It ws bcs I wore something orange and it might stand out . He asked for his sweatshirt back bcs it was freezing cold . The next day he got flu .
Funny , right ?

3. They wont steal your boy .
Well , bcs they are boys they wont steal your boy . And, just like your girl friends , they gv random opinions about your boy and you do not need to be offensive about it .

4. They wont tell your secrets away .
Hm this depends on how serious the secrets are . My guy friends do not tell my secrets to other people bcs I do not tell theirs . Sometimes , we joke about things which are close enough to the secrets in public , well enough to fill the air with suspense . For fun . Haha

Having a guy bestfriend for a girl is nice . Having a girl bestfriend bcs I am a girl is nice . Having a girl / guy bestfriend bcs I am an only girl among my siblings is just as nice .

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